
I spent most of my life thinking golf was a terribly boring game.
I spent most of my life thinking golf was a terribly boring game — hit the ball far and if it goes to the wrong direction, you have to find it and hit it again. I said to my husband who first taught me how to play golf that it’s a stupid game and I could find a million other ways to spend my leisure hours. So, how did I end up creating a Local Filipino Organization introducing and connecting ladies to the golf lifestyle?
Back in the Philippines, my husband Jim Cupit played twice a week not including Sundays where he spent most his time with our boys Ian and JD who were then five and three years of age at the time, getting golf lessons at Kagitingan Ft. Bonifacio Golf Course in Makati. In summer, Ian & JD played on the Philippine Junior Golf Tour and I had to be with them the whole competition. I got bored waiting so I decided to hit balls till my husband got the interest to hire a golf pro. As soon as I learned, I began my day at the driving range and started joining local fundraising golf organizations.
So, how did I go from golf player to golf entrepreneur? It is Jim Cupit my husband who introduced me to the game by creating experiences he knew I’d enjoy. He knew I am a visionary. He first hooked me up with his friends back in Manila, Philippines who are in the golf business. He also made sure I could master the swing which he loves most when I tee off.
Next, it became a history of selling Golf Shares & Real Estate while playing golf. What a fabulous alternative to enjoying a spectator sport. I shopped for sporty new outfits, spent my days in the sun and used the course as my daily exercise and selling golf shares. I discovered that golf is a great way to focus my mind and share quality time. When we moved to San Diego from Manila in 2001, and worked as a Property Manager from a Real Estate Investment Trust Company, I sadly missed golf and did not play for 8 years. In 2007, I was approached by San Diego Local Golf Organization to sponsor their event in behalf of the company that I worked for. I ended up being a member and began my swing each day with Mimosa on the sunrise and Chardonnay on the sunset… I was hooked!
I just had to share my new passion and found the opportunity. What I began as a golf fundraiser from various local associations has grown into a rewarding career introducing and connecting women to the golf lifestyle.
So, what am I doing on Saturday Morning? You will find me at the golf course with my Ladies on Course Golf Club of San Diego, my inspiration to the golf community.
Nearly two years had passed, the pandemic became a part of us, my husband left me with a great legacy and wrote in his tomb, “till we meet again”. It’s been more than a year now since I came back to the game I love, and the important thing I realized is that if we do something with a lot of a heart, it will open beautiful doors for us, especially so if we act and think in the light of HOPE. Let’s play golf!
Femie Villaflores-Cupit
Founder/ Event & Tournament Director
Ladies on Course by Fore Organized Golf
Pres. & CEO
Fore Golf Foundation


Femie Villaflores-Cupit is a seasoned entrepreneur, community leader, and real estate expert.
With over 20 years of experience in property management, she has established herself as a prominent figure in the industry. She has worked with reputable organizations such as CB Richard Ellis in Hong Kong and Camden Property Trust in San Diego.
In recognition of her remarkable achievements, she was awarded the Mark of Excellence in 2003 by the San Diego County Apartment Association.
Femie is the owner of MY HOME Senior Independent Living and has been a successful land investor since 2014.
PRESIDENT
FILIPINO AMERICAN CHAMBER OF COMMERCE GREATER SAN DIEGO
FOUNDER / CHIEF EXECUTIVE OFFICER, FORE ORGANIZED GOLF
FOUNDER /HANDICAP TOUR DIRECTOR, LADIES ON COURSE GOLF CLUB OF SAN DIEGO
PRESIDENT & CEO, FORE GOLF FOUNDATION
LAND BANKER
LICENSED REAL ESTATE
CERTIFIED RESIDENT MANAGER
MEMBER, CALIFORNIA APARTMENT ASSOCIATION
2003 MARK OF EXCELLENCE AWARD WINNER, SAN DIEGO APARTMENT ASSOCIATION
PRESIDENT 2010-2011, ROTARY CLUB OF SAN DIEGO PARADISE VALLEY
CLUB DIRECTOR SINCE 2017, ROTARY CLUB OF LA JOLLA
ADVISORY BOARD 2009, KALUSUGAN COMMUNITY CENTER
2008- 2010 MEMBER BOARD OF DIRECTORS, FILIPINO AMERICAN CHAMBER OF COMMERCE SAN DIEGO
MEMBER, ASIAN BUSINESS ASSOCIATION, HONGKONG BUSINESS ASSOCIATION
ADVOCATE OF GAWAD KALINGA, BATTERED WOMEN OF SAN DIEGO AND SAN DIEGO HUMAN TRAFFICKING
As I ventured forth, it was not just the wonders of the world that captivated me, but also the enigmatic force of love. Love, with its unpredictable dance of joy and sorrow, emerged as the guiding star of my odyssey. It propelled me to unimaginable heights, where the mere touch of another’s hand ignited a wildfire within my spirit. It led me through the shadowed valleys of heartbreak, where the gentlest breeze could pierce the armor of my vulnerability.
In this memoir, I unveil the mosaic of experiences that shaped me. Together, we will tread upon the sun-kissed shores of unforgettable romances, wander through the misty alleys of self-discovery, and navigate the tumultuous seas of emotional awakening. With each turn of the page, you will witness the triumphs and tribulations that sculpted the person I am today.
But be warned: this is not a flawless chronicle of victory and jubilation. It is an honest portrayal of a flawed human, basking in the glow of victories and grappling with the anguish of defeat. It is an unfiltered narrative, where vulnerability becomes my greatest strength, and my scars are worn with pride as reminders of resilience and growth.
Through my words, I aim to spark a kinship within you, a recognition that our shared human experience transcends time and space. Whether you are a weary traveler seeking solace, a dreamer yearning for inspiration, or a fellow adventurer eager to unfold the pages of your own tale, I extend my hand and invite you to embark on this transformative expedition.
For within the depths of my adventures in life and love, you may find the mirror to your own soul, where your triumphs can be celebrated, your heartaches embraced, and your spirit reignited with hope.
I have traversed the realms of life and love, guided by the currents of fate and the whispers of my heart. Every step I’ve taken, every decision made, has woven a unique thread into the fabric of my being. Now, as I set out to recount the chapters of my extraordinary journey, I invite you to immerse yourself in the symphony of emotions, the thrill of adventure, and the depths of human connection that have defined my existence.
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